I constantly receive this flood of low-effort comments asking me to DM, and even when I try to put up ads on what I like, what I actually want, how to properly seduce me, I still feel like I still never get what I actually want. Even those who follow my instructions, they write this wall of text full of misspellings and no punctuation so much so I feel like they might have typed it all out with one hand.
So, I’ve come up with a solution. I’ve put together a questionnaire that needs to be answered before I’ll engage in any discussions about meeting you. I honestly suspect I’ll get zero of these back. But that’s okay! It’s only for those of you who are genuinely interested in engaging further with me. And for those who are genuinely dying to hear from me. But if you are just here to jerk off, read my diaries, look at my sexy pictures, it’s totally fine too!
Even if this isn’t for you at all, or that you have no interest in actually meeting me or fucking me, no worries! You are more than welcome to just chat with me here. I love having meaningful conversations with everyone.
That said, if you do want to take things further, maybe, just maybe, put in some effort. Write down detailed, well-thought-out essays with logical structures on why you want to meet me. Concoct your arguments. Eloquently express your desires. Organize your thoughts before you write. And, most importantly, write clearly.
Important Points (Please Read):
- No one under the age of 18.
- If you have a public social profile, please share it with me.
- I will always try my best to reply if you write to me.
- Unfortunately, there is no guarantee that I will always respond to you, meet you, or have sex with you. I will most likely NOT meet you. I may NOT meet anyone. If you request it, I’ll try to give you an explanation on why I didn’t choose to meet you, but I can’t guarantee that either.
Building Trust Takes Time.
- Even if I like you, there will be more questions, lots and lots of follow-up conversations, before I meet anyone. If I decide to meet anyone.
QUESTIONNAIRE
General Questions
- Age/Gender/Ethnicity/Country of origin and current residenceDo you want me to travel to you, do you want to come to me, or either?
- If I come to you, where would I be staying?
Yes/No Questions
- Are you willing to get tested and share your STI test results if we decide to meet?
- Are you willing to share face and body pictures?
- If we met, would you expect a sexual encounter?
- If we do have a sexual encounter, would you be okay to be photographed, videotaped, and our sexual encounter being described in writing and posted on this blog?
Sex Questions
- What is your general experience with Asian women? Do you enjoy BDSM, and what role do you primarily identify with? What is your view on incest?
- What’s your approach to communication and consent in sex?
- Please share with me your previous experience with sex in general, such as your previous girlfriends, sex partners, wives, etc.
- Please share any specific types of play/dynamics you are interested in exploring together, such as raceplay, domination/submission, roleplay, etc.
Fun Questions:
- If we were to go to an amusement park together, and I ask you to either pretend to be my dad or my son, or my brother, depending on your age, what kind of activities would you engage in with me?
- Who are your favorite philosophers and why? Please list at least two and delve into detail regarding some of their most salient ideas and explain why you like them.
- If you are stuck on an island, and you have nothing else to do, what are the top ten books that you will bring with you? And explain why.
Yumi, how do you want your responses sent to you? You didn’t specify in your post, at least as far as I can tell.
You can just write it here ❤️❤️❤️
Good evening, Yumi. Sorry to hear you’ve been receiving such lackluster communication. I’d be happy to provide you a reply to your questions that you would definitely not consider “low-effort”, but hesitant to provide such information on a public forum. If you can respond to me at @mail.com, I will deliver you a response you should find more to your liking.
Hi Yuma,
I don’t share my public profile on here but I am happy to provide it to you off of here.
I would prefer to travel to me but it is a discussion to have.
Yes fine to get tested and share results will you do the same?
ybody and face pictures should go both ways.
Photo video writing about it is fine but are you going to publish photos and videos? If so that needs to be discussed as my life style is not public and my role as a professor could be put in jeopardy if I was exposed.
If we meet yes we need to have sex to see what you can handle and show how big of a chunk slut yiu are.
I have had 12 previous partners from vanilla with my ex wife’s and no not ex’s because I stepped out. The other encounters have been normal to me full control a few woman that loved being used. More details if you choose me.
Communication depends on the situation prior to meeting texting, speaking in the phone and video chats. Nice we meet and we are having fun together you will learn to listen and obey. I will let you have a safe word to use.
Amusement park as your daddy we would would find ways to give my baby girl some punishment fir being a naughty little slut in a public place as well find a place to take you where we could be caught. You would have to dress the part as my little girl and be over flirty and sexual to daddy.
Wow deep missions in philosophies which was not my strong point in school.
Confucius because of the wisdom he imparted in the world that is still used today.
A philosopher I doubt you know is a baseball player called Yogi Berra the wisdom he has shared with the world goes further then just baseball and can be used to express different aspects of life.
Another individual that shared philosophy with me was one of the greatest salesperson and business person Zig Ziglure his writings and ideas helped me grow from a young man who struggled to sell to a successful business banker and inspired me to further my education. So I could share my knowledge with students.
Top 10 books
They where soldiers true wartime story which I really enjoy and can be inspirational when times get tough.
Mosby’s Rangers a history of one of the not so well known confederate officers who lead a group of partisan soldiers to cause headaches to the union leaders to the point the wooded slats on the chain bridge into DC were removed nightly.
Robinson Cruseo to give me inspiration while stranded on that island. I also had to write a paper on this book in school so it became a all time favorite.
A book that I have full of Mark Twain quotes and poems.
My bible to feed me spiritually
A book on wilderness survival I have my onmwn skills but always good to have a reference.
a book for enjoyment the game of thrones series
A biography by Steve Young a great NFL quarterback who is very inspiring.
2 bold by Bear Gyrills written by him one about his climb of Everest
The other about his taking a rubber boat from Canada across the northern Atlantic to Scotland.
I hope that answers your questions and leaves us plenty to discuss besides me owning you completely
Jeff
OMG! I love the Bible too. Do you like the New Testament or the Old Testament? My son says one of his friend has a signed copy of the God Bless USA Bible from Donald Trump!
The New Testament as it is Christ words and written fir after his Crusifixation . What is your favorite part?
The part where Jesus have sex with his mother, Virgin Mary 😊😊😊
Hello Yumi. I am would love to tell you all about myself, and learn all I can about you. But I have the same concerns that others have already stated, the information I am willing to provide to you privately is not the same as the information that I am willing to share publicly.
If you are willing to contact me privately, I would love to answer your requests for my details. Along with erotic desires, experiences, fun questions, and anything else you’d like to know.
QUESTIONNAIRE
General Questions
Age/Gender/Ethnicity/Country of origin and current residence:
I am currently 36 years old, soon to be 37 in December. I am a White Male, with a mix of Austrian-Dutch ancestry, and the country I was born and reside in is the United States of America. To be more specific, I currently live in Texas, near Dallas. However, one of the places I would love to move to and settle down in is on the eastern side of Tennessee.
Do you want me to travel to you, do you want to come to me, or either?
I would be happy with either outcome! I have visited Japan on multiple occasions, and would be happy to have another excuse to visit your wonderful country. But if you made the trip to me, I would also be ecstatic to host you and take you to some beautiful sights and fun activites all around the area.
If I come to you, where would I be staying?
If you came to me, you are always welcome to stay with my in my home. My home, while a bit more rural, is plenty spacious sitting around roughly 186 sq. m. However, if we wanted to make it a special trip, I could have us meet at the resort I have a stake in, and we could spend all week in a beautiful mountain resort close to vineyards and many historical American buildings.
Yes/No Questions
Are you willing to get tested and share your STI test results if we decide to meet?
Of course! It would be my greatest shame to make such a lovely woman fearful of catching something horrible during coitus. While I can attest personally that I have never once caught even a UTI, I would be happy to provide such medical proof anytime and whenever desired.
Are you willing to share face and body pictures?
I would be happy to share such photos with you. You have already shown so much of yourself, it is only fair to acquiesce to your request for reciprocity. Physical Attraction is a big part of compatibility, and you should be attracted to the man and owner you want to spend the rest of your life with.
If we met, would you expect a sexual encounter?
While such a pleasure is always welcome, it would never be expected. I have had enough sexual encounters that felt forced or out of obligation, and not once have they ever truly been satisfying. I would not place such a burden on you, and if something happens, it should be organic born from a mutual desire.
If we do have a sexual encounter, would you be okay to be photographed, videotaped, and our sexual encounter being described in writing and posted on this blog?
I would be fine with it, personally. I have seen that you already take such precautions as not showing the face, and that would be my only stipulation. I know how important this blog and your exhibitionist lifestyle is to you, and I would dare not deprive your joy, especially if such an encounter made you experience Nirvana.
Sex Questions
What is your general experience with Asian women? Do you enjoy BDSM, and what role do you primarily identify with? What is your view on incest?
I personally have never had the pleasure or fortune to be with an Asian woman yet. I do enjoy BDSM myself, and I primarily identify with the Dominant/Sadist kind. But that kind of dynamic has to be with someone I trust completely and with someone who communicates, because I have had prior experiences that had the misfortune of indirect communication causing crossed expectations and soured moods.
As for my view on incest, I actually think such an act is an expression of love and allows familial bonds to deepen more than ever before. To feel a son hold his mother close and enter where he came out of, or a daughter to come into adulthood loving her father more than ever, it is a beautiful thing. While all participants would need to be at least 18 years old, I would trust that the family would all be adults about their desires and wants and express how they want to manifest those desires into reality.
What’s your approach to communication and consent in sex?
As I explained somewhat previously, I provide and prefer direct communication and expect that two adults will talk like adults, no games or subtleties (especially if we are still in the “Getting to know each other” phase). Much like the contract you specified in your previous post, I would want clear guidelines on where the boundaries are and what the definitive STOP words would be. And until I hear that word or phrase, I will keep going as I have been with full blessing of consent, no matter how much you scream No or Stop.
Please share with me your previous experience with sex in general, such as your previous girlfriends, sex partners, wives, etc.
Most of my previous sex experience has been one-offs while I traveled for work, something that satisfied an itch but was never fulfilling as I never built up a consistent sexual relationship where more could be explored. And my wife was very anti-sex, and treated it like an obligation. You can imagine the mental anguish that put me through knowing my partner did not desire me or want to touch me in any single way. Beyond that, I have had many conversations and exploring the depths of my dark kinks and fetishes, but alas nothing has come close to ever materializing.
Please share any specific types of play/dynamics you are interested in exploring together, such as raceplay, domination/submission, roleplay, etc.
The kind of dynamics I would want in an ideal relationship would be one of control, of complete power exchange. It would be one where obedience is born of love, and control is born from ownership and devotion. It would contains everything from Raceplay to Petplay to Master/Slave to Objectification to so much more, where the imagination is the limit. It would be an ever-expanding field of options, where every day is different. Where one day you are just naked furniture who gets ignored all day, to another day where you are collared and leashed and forced to bark and woof while I used a Knotted Dildo on you, to another day where you are treated like a beloved wife, to another where we test the limits of your impact play. I would want that dynamic with someone devoted and trusting beyond the point of reason, and that would bind our souls together forever more.
Fun Questions:
If we were to go to an amusement park together, and I ask you to either pretend to be my dad or my son, or my brother, depending on your age, what kind of activities would you engage in with me?
Since I am roughly the same age as you, but look gruffer, I expect to be cast into the role of the father. But regardless of which role I play, I will fall into it and be the best thespian I can to make your desires come true.
As the father, I would take you to the carousel and the tea cups, and dote on you all day. Grant you any souvenirs your heart desires, and win prizes for my lovely daughter. I would act as your protector, and the night will end with saying how much I love my precious daughter. To end the night, I would bounce you on my lap as the fireworks light up the sky.
But if I am cast as the brother, then there will be lots of teasing of my dearest sister. There will be attempts at public embarrassment, and taking you on the most thrilling and scariest rides. But despite all that, the night will end with with closeness and tenderness, sharing ice cream as the crowd winds down.
Who are your favorite philosophers and why? Please list at least two and delve into detail regarding some of their most salient ideas and explain why you like them.
Ah, Philosophy. I admit that it is one of my weaker subjects of study, but out of the ones I have read that I am most aligned with, I would choose David Hume (A Scottish Philosopher from the mid 1700’s) and Alexis de Tocqueville (A French Philosopher from the early 1800’s).
Hume’s work focused on Skepticism of Abstract Reason, Importance on Custom and Habit, and critiquing the Social Contract Theory. He argued in A Treatise of Human Nature that human reason is limited and frail, “Reason is, and ought only to be the slave of the passions.”, and as such Reason alone cannot determine Human actions or goals, all it does it provide the pathway on how those empassioned goals can be achieved. Because reason is purely descriptive and analytical, it cannot logically generate moral obligations or ideal social blueprints out of thin air. When philosophers claim to derive absolute “universal rights” or “natural laws” purely through abstract thought, Hume argued they are merely clothing their own subjective preferences in rationalist jargon. To top it off, since abstract principles are rigid they fail to adapt to the unpredictable reality of human behavior, thus inevitably when political reformers attempt to dismantle existing institutions based on abstract, speculative ideas of “perfection,” the results are almost always unintended consequences, social instability, and tyranny. Since Abstract Reason cannot be trusted to guide us, we must instead look to Empiricism, Custom and Tradition, and Historical Trial and Error to guide humanity onto the correct path for the future.
Moving onto Alexis de Tocqueville, his work Democracy in America is the principal occurrence of the insight into “Tyranny of the Majority”. Tocqueville recognized that while democracy successfully abolished traditional aristocratic tyranny, it introduced a subtle, pervasive, and unprecedented form of oppression: the absolute power of the majority over the minority, the individual, and the human mind. He observed that democratic societies are driven by an intense passion for equality. While equality breaks down oppressive feudal hierarchies, it simultaneously strips away the traditional “buffers” that historically shielded individuals from centralized power. He notes that the Tyranny of the Majority oppress not with chains and whips, but with psychological, moral, and emotional pressure, aptly quoted as follows: “The sovereign no longer says: ‘You shall think as I do or die.’ He says: ‘You are free not to think as I do; your life, your goods, everything remains yours; but from this day on you are a stranger among us.'” It becomes a soft despotism, as the institutions that make up society merely echo the Majority Bias rather than protecting the Minority Rights. But do not mistake all his critiques as being against Democracy, he was not opposed to it and preferred it over the feudal systems the came before, he merely cautioned such a system and encouraged local authority, Constitutional Limits, and volunteer organizations to place guardrails against the Majority Consensus.
If you are stuck on an island, and you have nothing else to do, what are the top ten books that you will bring with you? And explain why.
The top 10 books I would bring with me, now that is an interesting thought. Most of what I would bring would be very practical, acting as a Lodestone for civilization and survival.
The first book I would bring is SAS Survival Handbook: The Definitive Guide to Outdoor Survival by John “Lofty” Wiseman. It’s the gold standard of survival guides as written by 22 SAS Regiment Survival Instructors, and would ensure that I survive until help arrives. Of particular note is the section where it covers comprehensive coastal, tropical, and maritime survival techniques, including how to build secure shelters from driftwood, read weather patterns, construct makeshift water stills, and source food near shorelines.
The second book I would bring is U.S. Army Survival Manual (FM 3-05.70 / FM 21-76) by the Department of the Army. This one would be complimentary to the SAS Survival Handbook, and the sections I would use are on primitive fire starting (friction methods like the bow drill), water purification techniques (boiling, solar stills, filtration), trap construction for small game, and edible vs. toxic plant identification rules. With these two books, I can secure the Hierarchy of Needs and ensure that I can survive indefinitely until help arrives.
The third book I would bring is Primitive Technology: A Book of Earth Skills by David Wescott. Whatever materials and tools I start off with will eventually break down, and I will end up back in the Stone Age. This book will make sure that I can replenish vital tools and equipment.
For the fourth book, I would bring Where There Is No Doctor: A Village Health Care Handbook by David Werner. Infections, diseases, and injuries can be life-threatening, especially with no medical training or medicine nearby. I would need this to make sure any setbacks don’t bring an untimely end.
For the next three books, I would bring the following. 新完全マスター, 日本語総まとめ, and TRY! Bunpou Kara Nobasu Nihongo. With the free time I would eventually start to have after the basic necessities and daily chores start becoming easier or more routine, I would want to really focus on learning a language I have always deeply desired. I already say I have something akin to an Elementary School level understanding, but with as much free time as I will end up having, I want to gain mastery over the Japanese Language. These will also allow me to keep the brain occupied and help prevent my sanity from slipping away from being all alone.
Book #8 would be the King James version of the Bible. While I am not particularly religious, I have always had a great appreciation for the bible and have always wanted to learn more of the cosmology and mythology. I’ve never read it before, so why not start now?
Rounding out the final 2 books, something to continue to stimulate the mind as well as explore the very depths of humanity, philosophy, and psychology would be The Brothers Karamazov by Fyodor Dostoevsky and The Essays by Michel de Montaigne. These books will provide multiple re-readings, as each reading will allow me to further explore and debate with myself while I am in isolation, exploring opposing moral viewpoints and self-actualization respectively.
I wanted to thank you for taking the time to read my rather verbose response to your advertisement, where even if this ends up not being what you were seeking, I was able to flex some writing muscles that have not been exercised in a while. And considering todays instantaneous gratification culture and everything being condensed into 5 second video segments or 140 characters or less. I hope you have a wonderful day, and may you find what you are searching for.
“The road back is long, and I turn to gaze toward where my love dwells. My thoughts are filled with her alone; like the evening mist that rises over the hills, my longing never clears.”
Kakinomoto no Hitomaro (Man’yōshū)
I wrote a substantially long response to your questionnaire, though when I hit post it I did not see it appear in your feed. Perhaps it was too long or awaiting review? Regardless, I will attempt to rewrite it again if needed!
Hello Yumi, it is a pleasure to make your acquaintance! Ah, but where are my manners, my name is Michael. I apologize that most of the communication you have received has been rather lackluster, but I shall endeavor to be someone that is set apart from the rest.
You asked in your opening paragraph the pivotal question of “Why would I want to meet you?”, and I shall attempt to explain this as honestly as I can. To get the obvious out of the way, I have always found Japanese women to be among the most beautiful in the world, and the pictures you have shown have confirmed it for me. I have rarely seen someone as elegant as yourself, but it’s not just your beauty outside, but also what is inside as well. In a previous post you detailed the struggles you went through with a partner who was not sexually compatible in kinks, and how that rift formed and ultimately caused you to split apart. I know that exact feeling myself, as I have experienced it with my previous marriage as well. I think we are extremely compatible in not just our kinks, but in every aspect of what would make a relationship work. And I would kick myself and consider myself a fool if I let this chance slip through my fingers like grains of sand. Alas, let me move onto the real meat of the post, answering your questionnaire.
QUESTIONNAIRE
General Questions
Age/Gender/Ethnicity/Country of origin and current residence?
I am 36 years old, soon to be 37. I am a White Male with Austrian-Dutch Ancestry, though my Country of Origin and Residence has always been in the Unites States of America. I currently live in Texas near the city of Dallas, though I eventually would love to move and settle down in the eastern part of Tennessee.
Do you want me to travel to you, do you want to come to me, or either?
Either would be fine with me! I have traveled to Japan a few times and I would relish another opportunity to visit one of my favorite countries in the world. But I am also happy to accommodate you if you decide to travel to me!
If I come to you, where would I be staying?
You are welcome to stay in my home with me, of course. My home is roughly 186 sq. m. so there is plenty of space to utilize. However, if you want to meet at the resort I have a stake in, I can make that happen too.
Yes/No Questions
Are you willing to get tested and share your STI test results if we decide to meet?
Absolutely. I would never dream of making you fear an unknown ailment. While I can attest that I never have had anything, I am willing to provide medical proof that I am clean.
Are you willing to share face and body pictures?
I am willing to share my face and body. You have shown yours, so I will apply oblige the request for reciprocity.
If we met, would you expect a sexual encounter?
While a sexual encounter is always a nice bonus, it would not be expected. I, and I am sure you have too, have had the experience of an encounter’s pressure looming over the atmosphere, making the whole experience awkward. Any encounter I would want should be born out of mutual desire and attraction.
If we do have a sexual encounter, would you be okay to be photographed, videotaped, and our sexual encounter being described in writing and posted on this blog?
I would be fine with all of these. The only condition would be removing the face, but you are already tasteful in your own photos about it so I have no fear about it. I also know how much the exhibitionist lifestyle means to you, and it would be remiss of me to deprive you of your joy.
Sex Questions
What is your general experience with Asian women? Do you enjoy BDSM, and what role do you primarily identify with? What is your view on incest?
I actually have never had an experience with an Asian woman. I definitely enjoy BDSM, and I would align myself with the Dominant/Sadist side of the Spectrum. As for the incest question, I actually view it positively as an expression of love. It allows a deepening of the love and familial bonds that are shared, and since everyone is over 18, I trust that they are adults who know their desires and the manner in which they want to express them.
What’s your approach to communication and consent in sex?
Communication is key, and it is what would allow the lifestyle you want to flourish. Like you mentioned with the slave contract, there would be known guidelines and boundaries and what would constitute revoked consent. As long as this is known beforehand, then no matter how much you scream and cry out No or Stop, I would not because I trust you to know the phrase we agreed upon beforehand and to know when you actually want it to end.
Please share with me your previous experience with sex in general, such as your previous girlfriends, sex partners, wives, etc.
My experience previously has been mostly one-offs while i traveled for work. While I have always had the desire for a sexual relationship to grow into power dynamics and exploration of dark desires, I have not had the opportunity. While I do have an ex-wife, she was very anti-sex with a low libido. And I am sure you don’t need me to reiterate how it feels when sex is an obligation and you don’t feel any desire from your partner.
Please share any specific types of play/dynamics you are interested in exploring together, such as raceplay, domination/submission, roleplay, etc.
Honestly, the imagination is the limit. Everything from Raceplay to Objectification to Roleplay to Petplay to Master/Slave and so much more. Every day will be a new adventure in pain and pleasure. You will never know what each day will have in store. Perhaps one day you are just a romantically doting wife, and the next you are barking and woofing as I pull on your collar and force you to pee outside, to the next day where you are just a naked object that is not acknowledged all day.
Fun Questions:
If we were to go to an amusement park together, and I ask you to either pretend to be my dad or my son, or my brother, depending on your age, what kind of activities would you engage in with me?
I would most likely play the role of the father, and as for the types of activities we would engage in, I imagine it would acting like a doting father and a precious daughter. Riding teacups or the carousel, earning prizes from booths and watching you lick ice cream. Whatever role you would bestow, I would enthusiastically do. And I am sure we will sneak some naughty fun in too, playing on the incestuous role of Daddy/Daughter.
Who are your favorite philosophers and why? Please list at least two and delve into detail regarding some of their most salient ideas and explain why you like them.
Philosophy was not my strongest suit, but I think I would choose Thomas Hume and Alexis de Tocqueville as my two.
Thomas Hume, in his A Treatise of Human Nature, expounded on the ideas of the Limits of Reason, a Critique of Social Contract Theory, and using Experience and Custom as guides for humanity. He argued that Reason is a tool for determining the pathway of Human Goals, not what actually defines and motivates it. “Reason is, and ought only to be the slave of the passions.” He also argued that individual human reason is inherently limited, fallible, and prone to overconfidence. Society is far too intricate, chaotic, and driven by unseen passions for any single thinker or political assembly to comprehend fully, and inevitabely when political reformers attempt to dismantle existing institutions based on abstract, speculative ideas of “perfection,” the results are almost always unintended consequences, social instability, and tyranny due to the fact that abstract principles are rigid, and thus they fail to adapt to the unpredictable reality of human behavior.
Alexis de Tocqueville wrote Democracy in America and was the principal instance of where the idea of Tyranny of the Majority arose. He observed while democracy successfully abolished traditional aristocratic tyranny, it introduced a subtle, pervasive, and unprecedented form of oppression: the absolute power of the majority over the minority, the individual, and the human mind. He noted that democratic societies are driven by an intense passion for equality. While equality breaks down oppressive feudal hierarchies, it simultaneously strips away the traditional “buffers” that historically shielded individuals from centralized power. This meant that societal institutions merely echoed Majority Bias rather than protect Minority Rights, and instead of using whips and chains the Majority exerted its power through Psychological, Moral, and Emotional pressure. “The sovereign no longer says: ‘You shall think as I do or die.’ He says: ‘You are free not to think as I do; your life, your goods, everything remains yours; but from this day on you are a stranger among us.'”
If you are stuck on an island, and you have nothing else to do, what are the top ten books that you will bring with you? And explain why.
The 10 books I would bring would be a mixture of survival guides, new skillsets, and mental stimulation.
The first four or so would be the survival guides. SAS Survival Handbook: The Definitive Guide to Outdoor Survival by John “Lofty” Wiseman, U.S. Army Survival Manual (FM 3-05.70 / FM 21-76) by the Department of the Army, Primitive Technology: A Book of Earth Skills by David Wescott, Where There Is No Doctor: A Village Health Care Handbook by David Werner. This will allow me to have multiple resources to overcome any setback and meet the Hierarchy of Needs for an indefinite amount of time until rescue.
The next three would actually be Japanese Language books. I have always wanted to learn the language, and while I would currently consider my level to be equal to a Pre-Schooler, it is a language I would love to master as more free time slowly opens up as the daily survival becomes easier. As such, I would bring 新完全マスター, 日本語総まとめ, and TRY! Bunpou Kara Nobasu Nihongo.
The final three would be books providing mental stimulation. A King James Version of the Bible, The Brothers Karamazov by Fyodor Dostoevsky, and The Essays by Michel de Montaigne. These books would provide multiple readings, each time bringing new understanding and enlightenment, not only helping keep my sanity healthy, but also to explore myself and self-actualize into the person I always wanted to be.
Thank you for reading such a long response, and I hope you enjoyed reading it as much as I enjoyed writing it, especially in an age where everything is distilled into 5 second video clips or 140 characters. Even if the post ends up not being what you seek, I know you will find it soon. I wish you the greatest fortune in your endeavors, and I support you 100% of the way.
“The road back is long, and I turn to gaze toward where my love dwells. My thoughts are filled with her alone; like the evening mist that rises over the hills, my longing never clears.”
Kakinomoto no Hitomaro (Man’yōshū)
Hello Yumi, it is a pleasure to make your acquaintance! Ah, but where are my manners, my name is Michael. I apologize that most of the communication you have received has been rather lackluster, but I shall endeavor to be someone that is set apart from the rest.
You asked in your opening paragraph the pivotal question of “Why would I want to meet you?”, and I shall attempt to explain this as honestly as I can. To get the obvious out of the way, I have always found Japanese women to be among the most beautiful in the world, and the pictures you have shown have confirmed it for me. I have rarely seen someone as elegant as yourself, but it’s not just your beauty outside, but also what is inside as well. In a previous post you detailed the struggles you went through with a partner who was not sexually compatible in kinks, and how that rift formed and ultimately caused you to split apart. I know that exact feeling myself, as I have experienced it with my previous marriage as well. I think we are extremely compatible in not just our kinks, but in every aspect of what would make a relationship work. And I would kick myself and consider myself a fool if I let this chance slip through my fingers like grains of sand. Alas, let me move onto the real meat of the post, answering your questionnaire.
QUESTIONNAIRE
General Questions
Age/Gender/Ethnicity/Country of origin and current residence?
I am 36 years old, soon to be 37. I am a White Male with Austrian-Dutch Ancestry, though my Country of Origin and Residence has always been in the Unites States of America. I currently live in Texas near the city of Dallas, though I eventually would love to move and settle down in the eastern part of Tennessee.
Do you want me to travel to you, do you want to come to me, or either?
Either would be fine with me! I have traveled to Japan a few times and I would relish another opportunity to visit one of my favorite countries in the world. But I am also happy to accommodate you if you decide to travel to me!
If I come to you, where would I be staying?
You are welcome to stay in my home with me, of course. My home is roughly 186 sq. m. so there is plenty of space to utilize. However, if you want to meet at the resort I have a stake in, I can make that happen too.
Yes/No Questions
Are you willing to get tested and share your STI test results if we decide to meet?
Absolutely. I would never dream of making you fear an unknown ailment. While I can attest that I never have had anything, I am willing to provide medical proof that I am clean.
Are you willing to share face and body pictures?
I am willing to share my face and body. You have shown yours, so I will apply oblige the request for reciprocity.
If we met, would you expect a sexual encounter?
While a sexual encounter is always a nice bonus, it would not be expected. I, and I am sure you have too, have had the experience of an encounter’s pressure looming over the atmosphere, making the whole experience awkward. Any encounter I would want should be born out of mutual desire and attraction.
If we do have a sexual encounter, would you be okay to be photographed, videotaped, and our sexual encounter being described in writing and posted on this blog?
I would be fine with all of these. The only condition would be removing the face, but you are already tasteful in your own photos about it so I have no fear about it. I also know how much the exhibitionist lifestyle means to you, and it would be remiss of me to deprive you of your joy.
Sex Questions
What is your general experience with Asian women? Do you enjoy BDSM, and what role do you primarily identify with? What is your view on incest?
I actually have never had an experience with an Asian woman. I definitely enjoy BDSM, and I would align myself with the Dominant/Sadist side of the Spectrum. As for the incest question, I actually view it positively as an expression of love. It allows a deepening of the love and familial bonds that are shared, and since everyone is over 18, I trust that they are adults who know their desires and the manner in which they want to express them.
What’s your approach to communication and consent in sex?
Communication is key, and it is what would allow the lifestyle you want to flourish. Like you mentioned with the slave contract, there would be known guidelines and boundaries and what would constitute revoked consent. As long as this is known beforehand, then no matter how much you scream and cry out No or Stop, I would not because I trust you to know the phrase we agreed upon beforehand and to know when you actually want it to end.
Please share with me your previous experience with sex in general, such as your previous girlfriends, sex partners, wives, etc.
My experience previously has been mostly one-offs while i traveled for work. While I have always had the desire for a sexual relationship to grow into power dynamics and exploration of dark desires, I have not had the opportunity. While I do have an ex-wife, she was very anti-sex with a low libido. And I am sure you don’t need me to reiterate how it feels when sex is an obligation and you don’t feel any desire from your partner.
Please share any specific types of play/dynamics you are interested in exploring together, such as raceplay, domination/submission, roleplay, etc.
Honestly, the imagination is the limit. Everything from Raceplay to Objectification to Roleplay to Petplay to Master/Slave and so much more. Every day will be a new adventure in pain and pleasure. You will never know what each day will have in store. Perhaps one day you are just a romantically doting wife, and the next you are barking and woofing as I pull on your collar and force you to pee outside, to the next day where you are just a naked object that is not acknowledged all day.
Fun Questions:
If we were to go to an amusement park together, and I ask you to either pretend to be my dad or my son, or my brother, depending on your age, what kind of activities would you engage in with me?
I would most likely play the role of the father, and as for the types of activities we would engage in, I imagine it would acting like a doting father and a precious daughter. Riding teacups or the carousel, earning prizes from booths and watching you lick ice cream. Whatever role you would bestow, I would enthusiastically do. And I am sure we will sneak some naughty fun in too, playing on the incestuous role of Daddy/Daughter.
Who are your favorite philosophers and why? Please list at least two and delve into detail regarding some of their most salient ideas and explain why you like them.
Philosophy was not my strongest suit, but I think I would choose Thomas Hume and Alexis de Tocqueville as my two.
Thomas Hume, in his A Treatise of Human Nature, expounded on the ideas of the Limits of Reason, a Critique of Social Contract Theory, and using Experience and Custom as guides for humanity. He argued that Reason is a tool for determining the pathway of Human Goals, not what actually defines and motivates it. “Reason is, and ought only to be the slave of the passions.” He also argued that individual human reason is inherently limited, fallible, and prone to overconfidence. Society is far too intricate, chaotic, and driven by unseen passions for any single thinker or political assembly to comprehend fully, and inevitabely when political reformers attempt to dismantle existing institutions based on abstract, speculative ideas of “perfection,” the results are almost always unintended consequences, social instability, and tyranny due to the fact that abstract principles are rigid, and thus they fail to adapt to the unpredictable reality of human behavior.
Alexis de Tocqueville wrote Democracy in America and was the principal instance of where the idea of Tyranny of the Majority arose. He observed while democracy successfully abolished traditional aristocratic tyranny, it introduced a subtle, pervasive, and unprecedented form of oppression: the absolute power of the majority over the minority, the individual, and the human mind. He noted that democratic societies are driven by an intense passion for equality. While equality breaks down oppressive feudal hierarchies, it simultaneously strips away the traditional “buffers” that historically shielded individuals from centralized power. This meant that societal institutions merely echoed Majority Bias rather than protect Minority Rights, and instead of using whips and chains the Majority exerted its power through Psychological, Moral, and Emotional pressure. “The sovereign no longer says: ‘You shall think as I do or die.’ He says: ‘You are free not to think as I do; your life, your goods, everything remains yours; but from this day on you are a stranger among us.'”
If you are stuck on an island, and you have nothing else to do, what are the top ten books that you will bring with you? And explain why.
The 10 books I would bring would be a mixture of survival guides, new skillsets, and mental stimulation.
The first four or so would be the survival guides. SAS Survival Handbook: The Definitive Guide to Outdoor Survival by John “Lofty” Wiseman, U.S. Army Survival Manual (FM 3-05.70 / FM 21-76) by the Department of the Army, Primitive Technology: A Book of Earth Skills by David Wescott, Where There Is No Doctor: A Village Health Care Handbook by David Werner. This will allow me to have multiple resources to overcome any setback and meet the Hierarchy of Needs for an indefinite amount of time until rescue.
The next three would actually be Japanese Language books. I have always wanted to learn the language, and while I would currently consider my level to be equal to a Pre-Schooler, it is a language I would love to master as more free time slowly opens up as the daily survival becomes easier. As such, I would bring 新完全マスター, 日本語総まとめ, and TRY! Bunpou Kara Nobasu Nihongo.
The final three would be books providing mental stimulation. A King James Version of the Bible, The Brothers Karamazov by Fyodor Dostoevsky, and The Essays by Michel de Montaigne. These books would provide multiple readings, each time bringing new understanding and enlightenment, not only helping keep my sanity healthy, but also to explore myself and self-actualize into the person I always wanted to be.
Thank you for reading such a long response, and I hope you enjoyed reading it as much as I enjoyed writing it, especially in an age where everything is distilled into 5 second video clips or 140 characters. Even if the post ends up not being what you seek, I know you will find it soon. I wish you the greatest fortune in your endeavors, and I support you 100% of the way.
“The road back is long, and I turn to gaze toward where my love dwells. My thoughts are filled with her alone; like the evening mist that rises over the hills, my longing never clears.”
Kakinomoto no Hitomaro (Man’yōshū)
Hello Yumi, it is a pleasure to make your acquaintance! Ah, but where are my manners, my name is Michael. I apologize that most of the communication you have received has been rather lackluster, but I shall endeavor to be someone that is set apart from the rest.
You asked in your opening paragraph the pivotal question of “Why would I want to meet you?”, and I shall attempt to explain this as honestly as I can. To get the obvious out of the way, I have always found Japanese women to be among the most beautiful in the world, and the pictures you have shown have confirmed it for me. I have rarely seen someone as elegant as yourself, but it’s not just your beauty outside, but also what is inside as well. In a previous post you detailed the struggles you went through with a partner who was not sexually compatible in kinks, and how that rift formed and ultimately caused you to split apart. I know that exact feeling myself, as I have experienced it with my previous marriage as well. I think we are extremely compatible in not just our kinks, but in every aspect of what would make a relationship work. And I would kick myself and consider myself a fool if I let this chance slip through my fingers like grains of sand. Alas, let me move onto the real meat of the post, answering your questionnaire.
QUESTIONNAIRE
General Questions
I am 36 years old, soon to be 37. I am a White Male with Austrian-Dutch Ancestry, though my Country of Origin and Residence has always been in the Unites States of America. I currently live in Texas near the city of Dallas, though I eventually would love to move and settle down in the eastern part of Tennessee.
Either would be fine with me! I have traveled to Japan a few times and I would relish another opportunity to visit one of my favorite countries in the world. But I am also happy to accommodate you if you decide to travel to me!
You are welcome to stay in my home with me, of course. My home is roughly 186 sq. m. so there is plenty of space to utilize. However, if you want to meet at the resort I have a stake in, I can make that happen too.
Yes/No Questions
Absolutely. I would never dream of making you fear an unknown ailment. While I can attest that I never have had anything, I am willing to provide medical proof that I am clean.
I am willing to share my face and body. You have shown yours, so I will apply oblige the request for reciprocity.
While a sexual encounter is always a nice bonus, it would not be expected. I, and I am sure you have too, have had the experience of an encounter’s pressure looming over the atmosphere, making the whole experience awkward. Any encounter I would want should be born out of mutual desire and attraction.
I would be fine with all of these. The only condition would be removing the face, but you are already tasteful in your own photos about it so I have no fear about it. I also know how much the exhibitionist lifestyle means to you, and it would be remiss of me to deprive you of your joy.
Sex Questions
I actually have never had an experience with an Asian woman. I definitely enjoy BDSM, and I would align myself with the Dominant/Sadist side of the Spectrum. As for the incest question, I actually view it positively as an expression of love. It allows a deepening of the love and familial bonds that are shared, and since everyone is over 18, I trust that they are adults who know their desires and the manner in which they want to express them.
Communication is key, and it is what would allow the lifestyle you want to flourish. Like you mentioned with the slave contract, there would be known guidelines and boundaries and what would constitute revoked consent. As long as this is known beforehand, then no matter how much you scream and cry out No or Stop, I would not because I trust you to know the phrase we agreed upon beforehand and to know when you actually want it to end.
My experience previously has been mostly one-offs while i traveled for work. While I have always had the desire for a sexual relationship to grow into power dynamics and exploration of dark desires, I have not had the opportunity. While I do have an ex-wife, she was very anti-sex with a low libido. And I am sure you don’t need me to reiterate how it feels when sex is an obligation and you don’t feel any desire from your partner.
Honestly, the imagination is the limit. Everything from Raceplay to Objectification to Roleplay to Petplay to Master/Slave and so much more. Every day will be a new adventure in pain and pleasure. You will never know what each day will have in store. Perhaps one day you are just a romantically doting wife, and the next you are barking and woofing as I pull on your collar and force you to pee outside, to the next day where you are just a naked object that is not acknowledged all day.
Fun Questions:
I would most likely play the role of the father, and as for the types of activities we would engage in, I imagine it would acting like a doting father and a precious daughter. Riding teacups or the carousel, earning prizes from booths and watching you lick ice cream. Whatever role you would bestow, I would enthusiastically do. And I am sure we will sneak some naughty fun in too, playing on the incestuous role of Daddy/Daughter.
Philosophy was not my strongest suit, but I think I would choose Thomas Hume and Alexis de Tocqueville as my two.
Thomas Hume, in his A Treatise of Human Nature, expounded on the ideas of the Limits of Reason, a Critique of Social Contract Theory, and using Experience and Custom as guides for humanity. He argued that Reason is a tool for determining the pathway of Human Goals, not what actually defines and motivates it. “Reason is, and ought only to be the slave of the passions.” He also argued that individual human reason is inherently limited, fallible, and prone to overconfidence. Society is far too intricate, chaotic, and driven by unseen passions for any single thinker or political assembly to comprehend fully, and inevitabely when political reformers attempt to dismantle existing institutions based on abstract, speculative ideas of “perfection,” the results are almost always unintended consequences, social instability, and tyranny due to the fact that abstract principles are rigid, and thus they fail to adapt to the unpredictable reality of human behavior.
Alexis de Tocqueville wrote Democracy in America and was the principal instance of where the idea of Tyranny of the Majority arose. He observed while democracy successfully abolished traditional aristocratic tyranny, it introduced a subtle, pervasive, and unprecedented form of oppression: the absolute power of the majority over the minority, the individual, and the human mind. He noted that democratic societies are driven by an intense passion for equality. While equality breaks down oppressive feudal hierarchies, it simultaneously strips away the traditional “buffers” that historically shielded individuals from centralized power. This meant that societal institutions merely echoed Majority Bias rather than protect Minority Rights, and instead of using whips and chains the Majority exerted its power through Psychological, Moral, and Emotional pressure. “The sovereign no longer says: ‘You shall think as I do or die.’ He says: ‘You are free not to think as I do; your life, your goods, everything remains yours; but from this day on you are a stranger among us.'”
The 10 books I would bring would be a mixture of survival guides, new skillsets, and mental stimulation.
The first four or so would be the survival guides. SAS Survival Handbook: The Definitive Guide to Outdoor Survival by John “Lofty” Wiseman, U.S. Army Survival Manual (FM 3-05.70 / FM 21-76) by the Department of the Army, Primitive Technology: A Book of Earth Skills by David Wescott, Where There Is No Doctor: A Village Health Care Handbook by David Werner. This will allow me to have multiple resources to overcome any setback and meet the Hierarchy of Needs for an indefinite amount of time until rescue.
The next three would actually be Japanese Language books. I have always wanted to learn the language, and while I would currently consider my level to be equal to a Pre-Schooler, it is a language I would love to master as more free time slowly opens up as the daily survival becomes easier. As such, I would bring 新完全マスター, 日本語総まとめ, and TRY! Bunpou Kara Nobasu Nihongo.
The final three would be books providing mental stimulation. A King James Version of the Bible, The Brothers Karamazov by Fyodor Dostoevsky, and The Essays by Michel de Montaigne. These books would provide multiple readings, each time bringing new understanding and enlightenment, not only helping keep my sanity healthy, but also to explore myself and self-actualize into the person I always wanted to be.
“The road back is long, and I turn to gaze toward where my love dwells. My thoughts are filled with her alone; like the evening mist that rises over the hills, my longing never clears.”
Kakinomoto no Hitomaro (Man’yōshū)
Who’s Thomas Hume? I tried googling it and I was not able to find any philosopher by the name of Thomas Hume?
My apologies, I meant David Hume. It was very late when I typed this up, so I mixed the name up
So you mentioned that you would bring A King James Version of the Bible. Would that be a copy of the God Bless USA Bible from Donald Trump? 🤭🤭🤭
I did not know such an edition existed! But it would be a good choice for sure since it contains additional information and context on how it relates to USA. Definitely something I will pick up.
日本語を勉強しているって言ってた。日本人のネイティブと簡単な日常会話ならできるの？
I would say not yet, but I am close to being able to have everyday conversations. Mostly at the moment I can just talk about simple things like “トイレ絵どこですか？” or “おすすめ和？” or being able to count to 100 haha. But it is a skill I am actively learning and practicing!
私が日本語を教えてあげるよ！ 🤭🤭🤭 学びたい？
本当ですか？すばらしいい！教えて、由美先生.
本当ですか？素晴らしい！教えてください、ユミ先生！
37, Male White born in Illinois, U.S would like to travel to you first enjoy and see your lifestyle then preferably both travel back when ready.
: If you came to me I own my house, so youd be living with me there.
: Yes STI results would be expected both ways.
: Yea, Pictures or video sharing is good.
: I mean down the road yes obviously sexualencountes should be frequent, but first meeting i figure thats more be a play it by vibe and how well we hit it off.
: Thatd be fine I’ve been taped once before so im comfortablewith it, might make it more exciting to be honest.
: A few mixed Asian/American etc. But never Full of any one.
: Several BDSM roles I enjoy are Switch, Dominant, Exhibitionist, Experimentalist.
: I’ve never participated in incest myself, due to lack of family members I would enjoy it with. But I’m open minded to watch others
: I prefer specific and outright understandings, good communication helps full consent with each other. Also Helps to know boundaries, willingness and likes and dislikes. Especially when trying something new.
: Total experience includes 15 partners total most for extended on and off periods of time, I’m a very attentive person so learning what they needed or wanted kept them coming back.
: A few interested roles and dynamics exploring with you would be, Domination/Submission, Roleplay, Rope Play, Exhibitionism, Daddy/Mommy.
: Brother roleplay at the Amusement park would probably be best age appropriate role. Enjoy parts of the Amusement park while flirting and teasing. Definitely not apposed to a Incest roleplay scenario and good crowded area for Exhibitionism.
:1st Philosopher is Alan Watts who talks about how watching yourself, is the key to experiencing life. Not the ideas about life, but life itself. When you are watching tv, you are not watching a screen, you are immersed in an experience, and you forget the tv, you forget about your presence outside the experience created by what is on it. Similarly, you have created an experience for yourself in your life right now, and you have forgotten about the real self. Realizing that self, opens up a dimension, where everything starts to make sense.
2nd: Is Epicurus who was a philosopher who is known for his contributions to the field of ethics. He was a hedonist and known for his idea of the good life, which emphasizes the importance of pleasure and the avoidance of pain.
: I’m honestly not much of an established reader to pick 10, but hopefully they would be books about spirituality or Buddhism. Ive always had a big fascination with those topics and reaching a sense of self inner peace a few on astrology and astronomy to keep me busy at night also.
If you are a white Christian man, shouldn’t the Bible be one of your favorite books? 😊😊😊😊
Buddhism is the religion practiced by Communists.
My comments never get through on this – sorry
Really? Did you lose what you write? What happened?
General QuestionsAge/Gender/Ethnicity/Country of origin and current residence: Mexican from the US.
Do you want me to travel to you, do you want to come to me, or either? It would be easier if you travel here for me to make accommodations, but I can plan something to travel in the further distance.
If I come to you, where would I be staying? You will be staying here for at least one night at my place, then we will get a hotel with a great view.
Yes/No QuestionsAre you willing to get tested and share your STI test results if we decide to meet? Of course. It’s a recommendation I would also like the courtesy one being taken by you as well.
Are you willing to share face and body pictures? Of course I will share photos of myself.
If we met, would you expect a sexual encounter?If we do have a sexual encounter, would you be okay to be photographed, videotaped, and our sexual encounter being described in writing and posted on this blog? I would expect a sexual encounter if your comfort level matches it. I do not want you to feel forced upon. Photographs and video taping is a must if sexual encounter happens.
Sex Questions
What is your general experience with Asian women? First girlfriend is Chinese, one of my current play toys is Viet, and I’ve played with several Japanese women.
Do you enjoy BDSM, and what role do you primarily identify with? I do. I primarily identify as primal, but my rope play tends to be more sensual than rough.
What is your view on incest? In regard to America’s, there is no respect toward it. Other cultures intrigue me, but for biology purposes I would prefer offspring do not occur for their health risks.
What’s your approach to communication and consent in sex? Communication and consent are at the core of all sex. No one should be forced to do what they don’t like, but encouraged to explore kinks they have a curiosity to.
Please share with me your previous experience with sex in general, such as your previous girlfriends, sex partners, wives, etc. One encounter I was given permission to destroy their clothes and let my inner animal out. Without effort I grabbed her by the waist, threw her on the bed and tore a hole in the crotch of her pants. I was salivating like a rabid beast, lashing my tongue against her already throbbing clit, tearing even more of her pants with each lick. For an hour I threw her into so many positions, sliding my thick cock into her hungry pussy, pressing her button over and over again to the point where she was having convulsing orgasms. She was unable to stay on all 4s so I took her from behind and stroked my cock with her hole until I felt the cum and sensation build in my cock and released a massive load that pooled and ran outside.
Please share any specific types of play/dynamics you are interested in exploring together, such as raceplay, domination/submission, roleplay, etc. I would enjoy primal/prey, a bit of a push back but eventually throwing you into submission that you just leave every hole open for me to use. That you become comfortable to walk around naked and always know that at any point my feral self can be around the corner ready to pounce and use you.
Fun Questions:If we were to go to an amusement park together, and I ask you to either pretend to be my dad or my son, or my brother, depending on your age, what kind of activities would you engage in with me? I would like to hear your kinks that would turn you on the most. I also would have you wearing a vibrator I can control with my phone and have you try and ask for directions and similar sorts while turning it on and watching you try and keep your composure.
Who are your favorite philosophers and why? Please list at least two and delve into detail regarding some of their most salient ideas and explain why you like them. John Locke and Jack London. Both spoke about the struggles of poverty and how their biggest asset of value was their labor. Locke was neither a socialist or capitalist to modern terms. He did agree on the sale of labor and the accumulation of wealth, but he respected the values of human lives. London was a socialist that knew the greatest value was labor and saw progress exist best when those worked together in their best traits.
If you are stuck on an island, and you have nothing else to do, what are the top ten books that you will bring with you? And explain why. Frankenstein – by far one of the best collections of prose and the first big science fiction novel. Much of her work reflects the pains of life. Kafka at the Shore – strong prose that relates much of the struggles of human emotion, also incest storyline. Uzumaki – to satiate my thirst for visual horror. How to Navigate without a map and compass – need some survival book, and one written by a WWII pilot works well. Sandman – the world building is nothing short of spectacular. Universe in a Nutshell – easy to understand science book about space and time. 1984 – almost thankful that being on an island keeps me away from the dystopia. Lord of the flies – fun story about kids stranded on an island. Battle Royale – violent imagination of troubled teens forced to fight it out to just survive, but the individual stories are what make it great. Edgar Allen Poe collection – there’s a need for short stories and poems, and these happen to have some fun ones.
OMG! Someone just mentioned my favorite novel Kafka at the Shore!!!!
Incest is extremely common in Japanese literature. Even classical novels have them. In fact, Japanese mythologies have it that all of Japan were the descendants of incest sex between some close relatives like mother and son, sister and brother, from thousands of years ago.
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Yes, Yumi, Japanese literature is littered with assorted depictions of incest, of forbidden love, but there have been prohibitions in Japan at least through thy dynasties, since before these books were written. Perhaps it is the taboo nature itself that draws one to crave the intimacy of incest. Your own details of your relationship with your son are the only testament needed to understand the craving, the yearning desire.
I would bet, however, that the majority of people reading your story, as tantalizing as it is, would admit it privately, let alone publicly. Your words display a certain honor and integrity that most will never approach.
Hello Yumi,
What you seek as a preoccupied craving, and what you draw toward you are always two different things. You mention Bodhi and Vimutti as your desired destination, but search for the awakening by disclosing the demands of a bodhisattva. This public disclosure might help clarify the details for your own thinking, but Bodhi won’t be achieved through criticisms, demands and/or assertions. And since you know of Bodhi and Vimutti, you are aware of the truth I speak.
I read Lau Tzu’s the Tao Te Ching for the first time when I was a junior in high school. That was in 1972. It was the beginning of my spiritual quest but it wasn’t until 1996 or 1997 that my wife and I could attest to anything in the vicinity of Vimutti. A closeness so close in sexual ecstasy and bliss that the distance became incalculable. The learning curve was complete and the state would be duplicated nearly 24/7 for decades. We remained married for 32 years. I know what it takes for a successful, long-term WMAF relationship to ascend to the height of myths and dreams. I was married to a wonderful AF for those 32 years. She passed away in 2024.
However, I understand your frustration with finding the correct partner to both guide and follow you along your path. Despite your frustration, a true submissive would never make demands, in the form of commands, to their potential master. So, the first task for you to conquer is to embrace who you actually are. When you completely understand who that is, you can tailor your dreams and wishes to and for the correct audience. Somehow, your library appears hauntingly similar to our host here, Jennifer, so you are no neophyte to understanding the history of man. Because of this, your journey to the mental, physical, emotional, and erotically sexual Bodhi you seek can be a much shorter path than mine. When I met my future wife in 1992 I was near what your current age must be now. By 1992 I had already been on the path for several years. She trained easily, learned quickly, and rapidly ascended through the six levels of Kāmadhātu. We simply started from a different place, but you are now at a crossroads.
You are probably too young for me, but I can help you ascend to your goals. I can show you precisely how to select the man/master that will endure the test of time. I can teach you the role of patience and when to assert anything of importance to you and your heart. If you truly want to join the devas there is a known path.
If you are interested in confronting your future and having this conversation with me, please let me know.
Best,
Ben
This was supposed to be a slave obeying her master’s order to have sex with a follower. Now it seems she is interviewing for a husband!
This is quite the survey to be submitted publicly hahaha. Still having followed your depraved adventures for a while, I’ll play. I’ve found it uniquely intriguing and filled with kinky ideas that align my personal interest. As for social profiles, I’m happy to share privately, but this may not be the site for personal public profiles… right?
General Questions
42/Male/Scotch Irish Native (Kickapoo)/USA (Texas). Currently residing in central Florida. As for travel, I have no initial preference, but ideally both over the course of a long and fulfilling relationship.
If you come to me, you would wherever we negotiated ahead of time. There are many airbnb’s that could provide privacy enough for explicit kinky adventures in understanding communities. Eventually exploring a live in 24/7 power exchange dynamic would be fun goal to work towards.
Yes/No Questions
Fun Questions
Let’s see… Sartre? The idea that suffering comes from living inauthentically speaks to me. Also I believe people should define their own reason for existence.
I don’t engage with philosophy specifically a lot but I care about people and society.
There’s a glimpse into my world.
Formatting here is bullshit.