How to meet this slut Asian mom.

Good evening Yumi, It is a pleasure to make your acquaintance. I hope you do not mind me writing my response as a comment, I determined this to be the best way after looking through the page. But where are my manners? My name is Michael, and I hope this correspondence reaches you well this fateful day. And do not worry, I have no doubt someone as beautiful and desirable as yourself will be flooded with responses to your questionnaire, and some might even reach your high standard! As for myself, I aspire to reach those lofty heights and I remain in good spirits that I will no doubt at least come close.

Now, onto the pivotal question of why would I want to meet you? To get the obvious out of the way, you are an amazingly beautiful woman with an air of elegance in public, but I have also come to know your kinkier side hidden inside you. I have always found Japanese woman to be one of the most beautiful ethnicities, and I have a deep love and respect for your culture. And when an opportunity to meet such a wonderful woman comes across my path, I would be a fool to let it slip between my fingers like grains of sand.

One of your woes in your previous relationship was that it was difficult to share your non-vanilla kinks with the person you were with, and it developed into a rift that could not ben mended. And I would have you know that I am familiar with that kind of pain myself, as my previous wife was not compatible with me sexually in more than just kink, and it led to that very same rift you had yourself. I too have scores of non-vanilla kinks that my body craves to be explored, and exploring them with you, as someone who understands and knows the same feeling, would be an extra layer of compatibility for us. I would be happy to talk in greater detail should the opportunity avail us, but for now, let’s just say that I have read your previous post, and a lot of it speaks to me deep inside.

QUESTIONNAIRE

General Questions

Age/Gender/Ethnicity/Country of origin and current residence:

I am currently 36 years old, soon to be 37 in December. I am a White Male, with a mix of Austrian-Dutch ancestry, and the country I was born and reside in is the United States of America. To be more specific, I currently live in Texas, near Dallas. However, one of the places I would love to move to and settle down in is on the eastern side of Tennessee.

Do you want me to travel to you, do you want to come to me, or either?

I would be happy with either outcome! I have visited Japan on multiple occasions, and would be happy to have another excuse to visit your wonderful country. But if you made the trip to me, I would also be ecstatic to host you and take you to some beautiful sights and fun activites all around the area.

If I come to you, where would I be staying?

If you came to me, you are always welcome to stay with my in my home. My home, while a bit more rural, is plenty spacious sitting around roughly 186 sq. m. However, if we wanted to make it a special trip, I could have us meet at the resort I have a stake in, and we could spend all week in a beautiful mountain resort close to vineyards and many historical American buildings.

Yes/No Questions

Are you willing to get tested and share your STI test results if we decide to meet?

Of course! It would be my greatest shame to make such a lovely woman fearful of catching something horrible during coitus. While I can attest personally that I have never once caught even a UTI, I would be happy to provide such medical proof anytime and whenever desired.

Are you willing to share face and body pictures?

I would be happy to share such photos with you. You have already shown so much of yourself, it is only fair to acquiesce to your request for reciprocity. Physical Attraction is a big part of compatibility, and you should be attracted to the man and owner you want to spend the rest of your life with.

If we met, would you expect a sexual encounter?

While such a pleasure is always welcome, it would never be expected. I have had enough sexual encounters that felt forced or out of obligation, and not once have they ever truly been satisfying. I would not place such a burden on you, and if something happens, it should be organic born from a mutual desire.

If we do have a sexual encounter, would you be okay to be photographed, videotaped, and our sexual encounter being described in writing and posted on this blog?

I would be fine with it, personally. I have seen that you already take such precautions as not showing the face, and that would be my only stipulation. I know how important this blog and your exhibitionist lifestyle is to you, and I would dare not deprive your joy, especially if such an encounter made you experience Nirvana.

Sex Questions

What is your general experience with Asian women? Do you enjoy BDSM, and what role do you primarily identify with? What is your view on incest?

I personally have never had the pleasure or fortune to be with an Asian woman yet. I do enjoy BDSM myself, and I primarily identify with the Dominant/Sadist kind. But that kind of dynamic has to be with someone I trust completely and with someone who communicates, because I have had prior experiences that had the misfortune of indirect communication causing crossed expectations and soured moods.

As for my view on incest, I actually think such an act is an expression of love and allows familial bonds to deepen more than ever before. To feel a son hold his mother close and enter where he came out of, or a daughter to come into adulthood loving her father more than ever, it is a beautiful thing. While all participants would need to be at least 18 years old, I would trust that the family would all be adults about their desires and wants and express how they want to manifest those desires into reality.

What’s your approach to communication and consent in sex?

As I explained somewhat previously, I provide and prefer direct communication and expect that two adults will talk like adults, no games or subtleties (especially if we are still in the “Getting to know each other” phase). Much like the contract you specified in your previous post, I would want clear guidelines on where the boundaries are and what the definitive STOP words would be. And until I hear that word or phrase, I will keep going as I have been with full blessing of consent, no matter how much you scream No or Stop.

Please share with me your previous experience with sex in general, such as your previous girlfriends, sex partners, wives, etc.

Most of my previous sex experience has been one-offs while I traveled for work, something that satisfied an itch but was never fulfilling as I never built up a consistent sexual relationship where more could be explored. And my wife was very anti-sex, and treated it like an obligation. You can imagine the mental anguish that put me through knowing my partner did not desire me or want to touch me in any single way. Beyond that, I have had many conversations and exploring the depths of my dark kinks and fetishes, but alas nothing has come close to ever materializing.

Please share any specific types of play/dynamics you are interested in exploring together, such as raceplay, domination/submission, roleplay, etc.

The kind of dynamics I would want in an ideal relationship would be one of control, of complete power exchange. It would be one where obedience is born of love, and control is born from ownership and devotion. It would contains everything from Raceplay to Petplay to Master/Slave to Objectification to so much more, where the imagination is the limit. It would be an ever-expanding field of options, where every day is different. Where one day you are just naked furniture who gets ignored all day, to another day where you are collared and leashed and forced to bark and woof while I used a Knotted Dildo on you, to another day where you are treated like a beloved wife, to another where we test the limits of your impact play. I would want that dynamic with someone devoted and trusting beyond the point of reason, and that would bind our souls together forever more.

Fun Questions:

If we were to go to an amusement park together, and I ask you to either pretend to be my dad or my son, or my brother, depending on your age, what kind of activities would you engage in with me?

Since I am roughly the same age as you, but look gruffer, I expect to be cast into the role of the father. But regardless of which role I play, I will fall into it and be the best thespian I can to make your desires come true.

As the father, I would take you to the carousel and the tea cups, and dote on you all day. Grant you any souvenirs your heart desires, and win prizes for my lovely daughter. I would act as your protector, and the night will end with saying how much I love my precious daughter. To end the night, I would bounce you on my lap as the fireworks light up the sky.

But if I am cast as the brother, then there will be lots of teasing of my dearest sister. There will be attempts at public embarrassment, and taking you on the most thrilling and scariest rides. But despite all that, the night will end with with closeness and tenderness, sharing ice cream as the crowd winds down.

Who are your favorite philosophers and why? Please list at least two and delve into detail regarding some of their most salient ideas and explain why you like them. 

Ah, Philosophy. I admit that it is one of my weaker subjects of study, but out of the ones I have read that I am most aligned with, I would choose David Hume (A Scottish Philosopher from the mid 1700’s) and Alexis de Tocqueville (A French Philosopher from the early 1800’s).

Hume’s work focused on Skepticism of Abstract Reason, Importance on Custom and Habit, and critiquing the Social Contract Theory. He argued in A Treatise of Human Nature that human reason is limited and frail, “Reason is, and ought only to be the slave of the passions.”, and as such Reason alone cannot determine Human actions or goals, all it does it provide the pathway on how those empassioned goals can be achieved. Because reason is purely descriptive and analytical, it cannot logically generate moral obligations or ideal social blueprints out of thin air. When philosophers claim to derive absolute “universal rights” or “natural laws” purely through abstract thought, Hume argued they are merely clothing their own subjective preferences in rationalist jargon. To top it off, since abstract principles are rigid they fail to adapt to the unpredictable reality of human behavior, thus inevitably when political reformers attempt to dismantle existing institutions based on abstract, speculative ideas of “perfection,” the results are almost always unintended consequences, social instability, and tyranny. Since Abstract Reason cannot be trusted to guide us, we must instead look to Empiricism, Custom and Tradition, and Historical Trial and Error to guide humanity onto the correct path for the future.

Moving onto Alexis de Tocqueville, his work Democracy in America is the principal occurrence of the insight into “Tyranny of the Majority”. Tocqueville recognized that while democracy successfully abolished traditional aristocratic tyranny, it introduced a subtle, pervasive, and unprecedented form of oppression: the absolute power of the majority over the minority, the individual, and the human mind. He observed that democratic societies are driven by an intense passion for equality. While equality breaks down oppressive feudal hierarchies, it simultaneously strips away the traditional “buffers” that historically shielded individuals from centralized power. He notes that the Tyranny of the Majority oppress not with chains and whips, but with psychological, moral, and emotional pressure, aptly quoted as follows: “The sovereign no longer says: ‘You shall think as I do or die.’ He says: ‘You are free not to think as I do; your life, your goods, everything remains yours; but from this day on you are a stranger among us.'” It becomes a soft despotism, as the institutions that make up society merely echo the Majority Bias rather than protecting the Minority Rights. But do not mistake all his critiques as being against Democracy, he was not opposed to it and preferred it over the feudal systems the came before, he merely cautioned such a system and encouraged local authority, Constitutional Limits, and volunteer organizations to place guardrails against the Majority Consensus.

If you are stuck on an island, and you have nothing else to do, what are the top ten books that you will bring with you? And explain why. 

The top 10 books I would bring with me, now that is an interesting thought. Most of what I would bring would be very practical, acting as a Lodestone for civilization and survival.

The first book I would bring is SAS Survival Handbook: The Definitive Guide to Outdoor Survival by John “Lofty” Wiseman. It’s the gold standard of survival guides as written by 22 SAS Regiment Survival Instructors, and would ensure that I survive until help arrives. Of particular note is the section where it covers comprehensive coastal, tropical, and maritime survival techniques, including how to build secure shelters from driftwood, read weather patterns, construct makeshift water stills, and source food near shorelines.

The second book I would bring is U.S. Army Survival Manual (FM 3-05.70 / FM 21-76) by the Department of the Army. This one would be complimentary to the SAS Survival Handbook, and the sections I would use are on primitive fire starting (friction methods like the bow drill), water purification techniques (boiling, solar stills, filtration), trap construction for small game, and edible vs. toxic plant identification rules. With these two books, I can secure the Hierarchy of Needs and ensure that I can survive indefinitely until help arrives.

The third book I would bring is Primitive Technology: A Book of Earth Skills by David Wescott. Whatever materials and tools I start off with will eventually break down, and I will end up back in the Stone Age. This book will make sure that I can replenish vital tools and equipment.

For the fourth book, I would bring Where There Is No Doctor: A Village Health Care Handbook by David Werner. Infections, diseases, and injuries can be life-threatening, especially with no medical training or medicine nearby. I would need this to make sure any setbacks don’t bring an untimely end.

For the next three books, I would bring the following. 新完全マスター, 日本語総まとめ, and TRY! Bunpou Kara Nobasu Nihongo. With the free time I would eventually start to have after the basic necessities and daily chores start becoming easier or more routine, I would want to really focus on learning a language I have always deeply desired. I already say I have something akin to an Elementary School level understanding, but with as much free time as I will end up having, I want to gain mastery over the Japanese Language. These will also allow me to keep the brain occupied and help prevent my sanity from slipping away from being all alone.

Book #8 would be the King James version of the Bible. While I am not particularly religious, I have always had a great appreciation for the bible and have always wanted to learn more of the cosmology and mythology. I’ve never read it before, so why not start now?

Rounding out the final 2 books, something to continue to stimulate the mind as well as explore the very depths of humanity, philosophy, and psychology would be The Brothers Karamazov by Fyodor Dostoevsky and The Essays by Michel de Montaigne. These books will provide multiple re-readings, as each reading will allow me to further explore and debate with myself while I am in isolation, exploring opposing moral viewpoints and self-actualization respectively.

I wanted to thank you for taking the time to read my rather verbose response to your advertisement, where even if this ends up not being what you were seeking, I was able to flex some writing muscles that have not been exercised in a while. And considering todays instantaneous gratification culture and everything being condensed into 5 second video segments or 140 characters or less. I hope you have a wonderful day, and may you find what you are searching for.

“The road back is long, and I turn to gaze toward where my love dwells. My thoughts are filled with her alone; like the evening mist that rises over the hills, my longing never clears.”

Kakinomoto no Hitomaro (Man’yōshū)

Hello Yumi, it is a pleasure to make your acquaintance! Ah, but where are my manners, my name is Michael. I apologize that most of the communication you have received has been rather lackluster, but I shall endeavor to be someone that is set apart from the rest.

You asked in your opening paragraph the pivotal question of “Why would I want to meet you?”, and I shall attempt to explain this as honestly as I can. To get the obvious out of the way, I have always found Japanese women to be among the most beautiful in the world, and the pictures you have shown have confirmed it for me. I have rarely seen someone as elegant as yourself, but it’s not just your beauty outside, but also what is inside as well. In a previous post you detailed the struggles you went through with a partner who was not sexually compatible in kinks, and how that rift formed and ultimately caused you to split apart. I know that exact feeling myself, as I have experienced it with my previous marriage as well. I think we are extremely compatible in not just our kinks, but in every aspect of what would make a relationship work. And I would kick myself and consider myself a fool if I let this chance slip through my fingers like grains of sand. Alas, let me move onto the real meat of the post, answering your questionnaire.

QUESTIONNAIRE

General Questions

Age/Gender/Ethnicity/Country of origin and current residence?

I am 36 years old, soon to be 37. I am a White Male with Austrian-Dutch Ancestry, though my Country of Origin and Residence has always been in the Unites States of America. I currently live in Texas near the city of Dallas, though I eventually would love to move and settle down in the eastern part of Tennessee.

Do you want me to travel to you, do you want to come to me, or either?

Either would be fine with me! I have traveled to Japan a few times and I would relish another opportunity to visit one of my favorite countries in the world. But I am also happy to accommodate you if you decide to travel to me!

If I come to you, where would I be staying?

You are welcome to stay in my home with me, of course. My home is roughly 186 sq. m. so there is plenty of space to utilize. However, if you want to meet at the resort I have a stake in, I can make that happen too.

Yes/No Questions

Are you willing to get tested and share your STI test results if we decide to meet?

Absolutely. I would never dream of making you fear an unknown ailment. While I can attest that I never have had anything, I am willing to provide medical proof that I am clean.

Are you willing to share face and body pictures?

I am willing to share my face and body. You have shown yours, so I will apply oblige the request for reciprocity.

If we met, would you expect a sexual encounter?

While a sexual encounter is always a nice bonus, it would not be expected. I, and I am sure you have too, have had the experience of an encounter’s pressure looming over the atmosphere, making the whole experience awkward. Any encounter I would want should be born out of mutual desire and attraction.

If we do have a sexual encounter, would you be okay to be photographed, videotaped, and our sexual encounter being described in writing and posted on this blog?

I would be fine with all of these. The only condition would be removing the face, but you are already tasteful in your own photos about it so I have no fear about it. I also know how much the exhibitionist lifestyle means to you, and it would be remiss of me to deprive you of your joy.

Sex Questions

What is your general experience with Asian women? Do you enjoy BDSM, and what role do you primarily identify with? What is your view on incest?

I actually have never had an experience with an Asian woman. I definitely enjoy BDSM, and I would align myself with the Dominant/Sadist side of the Spectrum. As for the incest question, I actually view it positively as an expression of love. It allows a deepening of the love and familial bonds that are shared, and since everyone is over 18, I trust that they are adults who know their desires and the manner in which they want to express them.

What’s your approach to communication and consent in sex?

Communication is key, and it is what would allow the lifestyle you want to flourish. Like you mentioned with the slave contract, there would be known guidelines and boundaries and what would constitute revoked consent. As long as this is known beforehand, then no matter how much you scream and cry out No or Stop, I would not because I trust you to know the phrase we agreed upon beforehand and to know when you actually want it to end.

Please share with me your previous experience with sex in general, such as your previous girlfriends, sex partners, wives, etc. 

My experience previously has been mostly one-offs while i traveled for work. While I have always had the desire for a sexual relationship to grow into power dynamics and exploration of dark desires, I have not had the opportunity. While I do have an ex-wife, she was very anti-sex with a low libido. And I am sure you don’t need me to reiterate how it feels when sex is an obligation and you don’t feel any desire from your partner.

Please share any specific types of play/dynamics you are interested in exploring together, such as raceplay, domination/submission, roleplay, etc.

Honestly, the imagination is the limit. Everything from Raceplay to Objectification to Roleplay to Petplay to Master/Slave and so much more. Every day will be a new adventure in pain and pleasure. You will never know what each day will have in store. Perhaps one day you are just a romantically doting wife, and the next you are barking and woofing as I pull on your collar and force you to pee outside, to the next day where you are just a naked object that is not acknowledged all day.

Fun Questions:

If we were to go to an amusement park together, and I ask you to either pretend to be my dad or my son, or my brother, depending on your age, what kind of activities would you engage in with me?

I would most likely play the role of the father, and as for the types of activities we would engage in, I imagine it would acting like a doting father and a precious daughter. Riding teacups or the carousel, earning prizes from booths and watching you lick ice cream. Whatever role you would bestow, I would enthusiastically do. And I am sure we will sneak some naughty fun in too, playing on the incestuous role of Daddy/Daughter.

Who are your favorite philosophers and why? Please list at least two and delve into detail regarding some of their most salient ideas and explain why you like them. 

Philosophy was not my strongest suit, but I think I would choose Thomas Hume and Alexis de Tocqueville as my two.

Thomas Hume, in his A Treatise of Human Nature, expounded on the ideas of the Limits of Reason, a Critique of Social Contract Theory, and using Experience and Custom as guides for humanity. He argued that Reason is a tool for determining the pathway of Human Goals, not what actually defines and motivates it. “Reason is, and ought only to be the slave of the passions.” He also argued that individual human reason is inherently limited, fallible, and prone to overconfidence. Society is far too intricate, chaotic, and driven by unseen passions for any single thinker or political assembly to comprehend fully, and inevitabely when political reformers attempt to dismantle existing institutions based on abstract, speculative ideas of “perfection,” the results are almost always unintended consequences, social instability, and tyranny due to the fact that abstract principles are rigid, and thus they fail to adapt to the unpredictable reality of human behavior.

Alexis de Tocqueville wrote Democracy in America and was the principal instance of where the idea of Tyranny of the Majority arose. He observed while democracy successfully abolished traditional aristocratic tyranny, it introduced a subtle, pervasive, and unprecedented form of oppression: the absolute power of the majority over the minority, the individual, and the human mind. He noted that democratic societies are driven by an intense passion for equality. While equality breaks down oppressive feudal hierarchies, it simultaneously strips away the traditional “buffers” that historically shielded individuals from centralized power. This meant that societal institutions merely echoed Majority Bias rather than protect Minority Rights, and instead of using whips and chains the Majority exerted its power through Psychological, Moral, and Emotional pressure. “The sovereign no longer says: ‘You shall think as I do or die.’ He says: ‘You are free not to think as I do; your life, your goods, everything remains yours; but from this day on you are a stranger among us.'”

If you are stuck on an island, and you have nothing else to do, what are the top ten books that you will bring with you? And explain why. 

The 10 books I would bring would be a mixture of survival guides, new skillsets, and mental stimulation.

The first four or so would be the survival guides. SAS Survival Handbook: The Definitive Guide to Outdoor Survival by John “Lofty” Wiseman, U.S. Army Survival Manual (FM 3-05.70 / FM 21-76) by the Department of the Army, Primitive Technology: A Book of Earth Skills by David Wescott, Where There Is No Doctor: A Village Health Care Handbook by David Werner. This will allow me to have multiple resources to overcome any setback and meet the Hierarchy of Needs for an indefinite amount of time until rescue.

The next three would actually be Japanese Language books. I have always wanted to learn the language, and while I would currently consider my level to be equal to a Pre-Schooler, it is a language I would love to master as more free time slowly opens up as the daily survival becomes easier. As such, I would bring 新完全マスター, 日本語総まとめ, and TRY! Bunpou Kara Nobasu Nihongo.

The final three would be books providing mental stimulation. A King James Version of the Bible, The Brothers Karamazov by Fyodor Dostoevsky, and The Essays by Michel de Montaigne. These books would provide multiple readings, each time bringing new understanding and enlightenment, not only helping keep my sanity healthy, but also to explore myself and self-actualize into the person I always wanted to be.

Thank you for reading such a long response, and I hope you enjoyed reading it as much as I enjoyed writing it, especially in an age where everything is distilled into 5 second video clips or 140 characters. Even if the post ends up not being what you seek, I know you will find it soon. I wish you the greatest fortune in your endeavors, and I support you 100% of the way.

“The road back is long, and I turn to gaze toward where my love dwells. My thoughts are filled with her alone; like the evening mist that rises over the hills, my longing never clears.”

Kakinomoto no Hitomaro (Man’yōshū)