In the last two to three decades, there has been a gradual, increasing influx of Chinese immigrants into Japan, mostly consisting of Chinese women looking for Japanese husbands and cheap Chinese laborers, and over time those Chinese started to assimilate into the Japanese culture, permeating every nook and cranny of Japanese society and today so many of them lurk around, not just in large cities, but even in Japanese countrysides and on farmlands and I would be genuinely surprised if anyone who visit Japan would not run into at least a few of them. The problem, however, is that Chinese and Japanese do look very alike and it’s impossible to tell them apart, even native Japanese cannot always tell the difference and there is much less hope for any white gaijin looking for pure bred Japanese women—and that in itself is not unacceptable since there are many Japanese as well who would be disgusted at the thought of having sex with a Chinese woman, and so similarly, from my experience, many white gaijin who come to Japan are strictly looking for pure bred Japanese women, not some inferior Chinese knockoffs, and for those who seem to think that “Sure I can tell the difference. I am not going to marry a Chinese woman thinking that she is in fact Japanese,” yeah right, good luck with that. For better or for worse, Chinese women in Japan are known to be gold-diggers with killer instincts and they are so good at disguising themselves as Japanese women that even Japanese men are known to have been fooled. While Japanese women can be similarly gold-digging, Chinese women are just taking it to a whole new level. So I think it’s actually “safer” for white gaijin to date pure bred Japanese women, for your own good, and of course not all Chinese women are gold diggers, and what if she’s mixed, like half Chinese and half Japanese (99% of the times it’s a Japanese father and a Chinese mother, and don’t be silly there are tons of mixed children in Japan). In that case, usually, she would initially identify herself as pure Japanese, but as she grew older, she would gradually, more likely, to identify herself more strongly with her Chinese maternal side, but she would also just as likely to be so disappointed later on that she would once again revert back to identifying herself as Japanese. I don’t know why.
Anyway here are a few ways to tell the difference between a pure bred Japanese woman and a Chinese woman who pretends to be Japanese.
1. Appearance. Unless you are Asian, in which case you can indeed tell the difference between a Japanese woman and a Chinese woman with approximately 50% accuracy, there is otherwise no hope that you can tell the difference by observing their appearances alone. And even if you are Asian, say, a native Japanese, your ability to correctly tell that someone is from where based solely on her appearance has the same probability of flipping a coin, because there is an in-group bias that exists in all populations that seem to want the prettiest and best looking people to be in “your” group. So it seems that every time a very pretty asian girl comes along, Korean men will think she’s Korean, Japanese men will think she’s Japanese, and Chinese men will think she’s Chinese. By appearance alone it just won’t work, but if you do have to base on appearance alone, then Chinese women are usually very ugly, so if you say a very ugly asian woman, just assume she is Chinese.
2. Language. Since the dawn of mankind, language has been the most powerful discriminator among humans. Just by listening to a few words uttered by a complete stranger, who might even look completely like me, I can, with absolutely certainty, tell whether or not that stranger is a native Japanese, or a foreigner, and, in the case that she is Japanese, where she might have been originally from, or in the case that she is not Japanese, whether or not she is Chinese, and whether or not she is Northern Chinese or Southern Chinese or Taiwanese, and with this known knowledge, I can change my behavior toward that stranger accordingly, and I can decide to reveal this knowledge or not, depending on the situation, and I can choose to either be honest with her, or treat her with suspicion. Language is the most efficient way for me to identify whether someone is real Japanese or fake Japanese, and in most cases all I need is for you to utter a single word for me to be able to make that judgement. Now of course there are exceptions; there were quite a few Chinese who spoke such fluent Japanese that there was simply no way to tell they were non-Japanese. It’s a lot easier for Chinese to learn Japanese than it is for English speakers. Chinese and Japanese languages are very similar, well because one of them is derived from another. In a perfect world where there would no longer be any discrimination, all languages must be abolished and people should only communicate in English, but unfortunately we don’t live in that perfect world yet.
3. Behavior. The funniest thing that one can do is to ask a Japanese woman: “Why are you behaving like a Chinese woman?” That is absolutely the most insulting remark you can say to her. Japanese pride themselves on being the most polite folks on earth and it absolutely just destroys her if you compare her to a Chinese woman. Behaviorally, it is nearly impossible for any Chinese woman to be subservient, due to their cultural roots in Communism; however, Japanese women are still relatively comfortable with being subservient, so if you are a white gaijin looking for a completely subservient Chinadoll, your best bet is a Japanese woman, and not a Chinese woman, who might be a complete psychopath, or if you are a masochist you might actually like her. Now, of course, there are Japanese women who are crazy too. I knew a Japanese girl who never washed her underwear and who never used tampons and all her underwear were stained with blood. I have heard from some white men that Chinese women are more likely to be subservient if they are married to white men, but from what I have heard from Chinese men and Japanese men alike, Chinese women seem like psychopaths
If you know she is Chinese, then what? Where I used to work, I knew quite a few Chinese women who pretended to be Japanese, and out of politeness, I just kept the open secrets to myself and never said anything. I knew they were not really Japanese, not even half-Japanese, as one Chinese girl who claimed herself to be half-Japanese, but I just kept silent and never spoke of it. It was not like they were trying to hide the open secret among themselves either; it was just a way to fool those Japanese customers. The place I worked did not allow gaijin. Was it immoral? From a western stand point it certainly was immoral, but from an eastern stand point, money is never immoral.
Those are just some of my observations from my personal life-experience living in Japan, and though some of it might sound daunting, it must not deter you to experience life on your own. There will be happiness, and sadness and adventures in life and as a man, a white man no less, you must embrace them fearlessly and your joy will accordingly be immense. Lastly, though Japanese women in general are more desirable than Chinese women, and though Chinese and Japanese do in fact hate one another with seething hatred at times, there are immense social as well as peer pressure among all asian women to compete with one another to attract men, especially white men, so you can be rest assured that both Chinese women and Japanese women will love you with equal zeal for no reason other than the fact that you are a white man, and it helps too if you are an American citizen. So do not be afraid to let your white stallion roughshod through Asia, let your lance pierces through those naked breasts because no matter what you do, you will still be better than those asian men who abuse women and who treat women like slaves and you will be beholden as the white savior.