This is a real challenge . Why it is so challenging? Because there are many psychological factors at play. Would you really be keen—in this dogmatic day and age—to expose your wife/girlfriend in full display, out in public, of her obedience and subordinance to you? I am sure many would hesitate. Not only will such behavior be frowned upon by the general public, but those Asian females will experience intense shame when their private sub-ordinance is displayed in front of all.
But what we really have to look at is the huge amount of positives that we are going to gain if we do small sacrifices from our part. When more Asian women and White men start embracing this lifestyle slowly and gradually the fingers that are pointing towards us will drop. So how we are going to go about it?
I have divided this essay in three parts. In the first part we will analyse some patterns of Asian behavior. In the second part we will discuss the psychological factors at play, to give you a deeper understanding. Finally, in the third part we will present reframing Asian identity as a powerful behavior altering tool.
It is natural that many Asian women become interested in WMAF relationships by witnessing their girlfriends, observing their handsome godlike white sex partners, their lovable manner, their respect of women and their moral authority.
When they ask for an explanation, their friend is usually glad to describe her experiences with WMAF relationship and her obedience, and how she has learned to love his domination and its many benefits. Many times, a woman will be so excited during the first stages of her obedience that she will be unable to discuss anything else, and soon enough all her acquaintances will know. This is contributing to a large extent to the rapid spread of WMAF households and circles.
Indeed, it is highly therapeutic for an Asian to sit silently while her husband or boyfriend proudly discloses the most intimate details of her subordination, among his usual manly guffaws and laughters, as if showing off his latest trophy.
The female is usually very tense when her subservience is being publicly discussed, especially when in the presence of other Asian females. During the initial stages she will feel a sense of fear. After the fact, however, many women notice a definite softening in their own mannerisms and behavior, which is quite pleasant. Though most men ignore the psychological mechanisms at play most intuitively understand that showing off Asian female’s passivity enhances the white male ego.
Interestingly, the tension vanishes after the female’s condition has been exposed a few times before the same individuals. All is out in the open now, and she has nothing further to fear from the group. Suddenly, another type of behavior is observed, provided the man keeps talking positively about her manners and progress. When fear has subsided, Asian women generally try to live up to the reputation you have created for them, and try to display their best behavior in front of guests. This sort of voluntary compliance is a primary objective in any type of WMAF relationships.
Pride and shame are emotions that were engineered by nature with the sole purpose of allowing an individual to be alerted to sudden changes of status and popularity. Pride alerts one that one’s popularity is on the rise; it is a pleasurable sensation because it indicates that one should repeat whatever one has done. Shame alerts one that one’s popularity is declining; it is an unpleasant sensation because it indicates that the current behavior will be deleterious, hence one should cease this activity .
Pride and shame can be real or imagined; it is possible to envision a particular situation and gauge whether this will result in pride or shame or neither. Again this is nature’s way of allowing us to navigate the social landscape creating alliances and avoiding ostracism and isolation, an event which evolutionarily had a high rate of fatality.
Training of your Asian female should be based on exploiting such existing emotions, not changing them or blocking them, as this is never possible. Emotions allow us to interact directly with lower brain layers and bypass the rational mind. Controlling a woman’s emotions means controlling her behavior.
Making a display of Asian female’s submission formalizes it by integrating it into a real racial social isomorphism. As in any racial social isomorphism many emotions kick in, including pride and shame. Although Asian submission is becoming increasingly popular among white males, in most racial social settings it is still not customary to make an overt display of it. Therefore the first mechanism that will be triggered in the Asian’s mind is anxiety. Anxiety will slowly turn into shame, because of fear. Red cheeks and giggles, which signify that the object of anxiety has been singled out for attention and is being closely scrutinized, will also contribute to precipitating anxiety into shame.
It is common for Asians to become completely silent at this point, especially if it’s their first time; your Asian may even “freeze” or become unresponsive. This is not a problem, because the real goal is not to obtain any cooperation on her part. The important point is that while your Asian is experiencing intense shame her subconscious mind will be totally occupied with the social consequences of her exposure. Therefore any other stimulus will be registered without any filtering.
The stimulus that a shamed Asian will absorb without any filtering in this case is her objectification. As her subconscious mind tries to process the ramifications of her exposure, she will be completely oblivious to the fact that she has become a mere object. An object of display, of curiosity; she is helpless – by actions or words – to change the focus and object of everyone’s attention and remains there, silent and helpless, like a newborn child surrounded by curious and intrusive adults.
This results in a “loss of agency”, that is, a situation in which she is no longer an agent in the world but a thing which is acted upon. The psychological effect of this loss of agency is a kind of identity change. The reason this effect is so intense is because this is not happening in an ordinary situation, in which the logical mind would retain a sense of agency and try to cope with the circumstances. Rather, it all occurs in the midst of a highly emotional state, which tags the experience as very relevant and promotes its integration at deep levels of the mind. This sudden change in the Asian’s perceived role in the world, together with a certain manifestation of the Stockholm Syndrome, explain why most white men experience a pleasant afterglow of deference and affection from their Asians after they have taken them through a traumatic moment of anxiety by making their condition public.
The Asian loses her fear when her submissive status has been thoroughly exposed, understood and acknowledged.
I do not recommend interacting with your Asian during an exposure episode. Do not ask her to do things, nor request her opinion or a verbal confirmation of what you are saying. Remember: she is the object. Be completely oblivious of her presence as you disclose intimate details of her training and condition. Her silence will be understood to imply agreement. Let the feeling sink in, and do not distract her. This is an intense moment for her though you can’t see it.
With regards to the “switch” that happens in the Asian once she has gotten used to being displayed in front of a certain group, it is interesting to note how one powerful emotion gives way to another. The Asian loses her fear when her submissive status has been thoroughly exposed, understood and acknowledged. When this element of shame has been overcome, pride will take control, and the Asian will go to great lengths to live up to the reputation you have given her. It was shameful enough to be exposed as a servant. It could be even more humiliating to be later found to be a mediocre one!
Make Her Proud to Serve:
It goes without saying that, given the many beneficial effects, you should aim at letting everyone know about your Asian’s obedience. Create a formidable reputation which she will be afraid of ruining by being rude or uppity. Present her as the most helpful, well mannered wife/girlfriend you have ever met.
As the Asian learns to fight to preserve her reputation as the “most obedient”, “most attentive” slave, or the “girlfriend who never ever talks back to you”, something important will happen. The Asian will begin to associate her sense of pride to the quality of her service, which is key to long-lasting obedience.
As you reveal your Asian’s subordinate role, you should not be afraid of embarrassing her. She must confront her fears and come to terms with the reality of her condition in order for reframing to happen. Although there is no harm in inflicting on your Asian a very high degree of humiliation, you should never talk about her submission in terms which may be regarded as derogatory or diminishing of her status. This would be against training principles, because the Asian would register submission as a negative trait and try to avoid it, or at least hide it in public. Instead, make it clear to your Asian that her submission is enhancing her social status and is something to be proud of.