Despite the fact that Chinese men outnumber Chinese women 125 to 100, PRC official estimates 100 million Chinese women cannot find men for sex and marriage in China as of 2024 and that desperate measures might be meted out to prevent a Chinese population collapse due to extreme low birthrate.
In 2014, the flagship magazine of the Chinese state media in matters related to finance and economics, “Yi-Cai” published an Op-Ed by an expatriate living in Shanghai describing the glaring differences he had noticed of the local Chinese men and women.
The title of the article was called “Chinese men do not deserve Chinese women.”
A few excerpts from the article were as follows:
“Everywhere I look in Shanghai, I can’t help but see that Chinese women are simply of a higher caliber, nay, even of a higher class, than Chinese men. Chinese women here are always slim, well dressed, elegant in manner and full of spirit. Their eyes are glaring with feminine joy and cheerfulness. Their frail and petite statues evoke my desire to protect them and cherish them. On the other hand, the Chinese men around those women always appear jaundiced, weak and listless; their eyes are full of ennui and a sickness of life; their clothes are dirty and unkempt, and their hair are always disheveled and dry like autumn leaves.”
The article ends by stating that as “a foreign man, I have the uncontrollable urge to save those Chinese women. I want to show them what a real man is capable of.”
At the time talks of a Chinese population collapse due to low birth rate was nowhere near the radar for the Chinese government. In fact, China’s tyrannical “one child policy” was still in effect until 2015.
However, in current year, even Chinese official media are sounding the alarm of a looming crisis. This old article was dug out and being plastered all over the Chinese social media.
According to latest statistics from the Chinese Census Bureau, the number of young Chinese females who are unmarried and childless has officially crossed 100 million. The Chinese media dubbed it as “the problem of the 100 million shèngnǚ [leftover women]”.
In the articles (see sources below), Chinese authors cite that the drastically high rate of single-hood among young Chinese females as due to “unrealistic standards of the opposite sex,” “a desire for money rather than love,” and “corruption due to materialistic capitalism”.
To buttress their arguments, they use evidence of Chinese women demanding money before marriage from their husbands, or, of Chinese women demanding money from their boyfriends.
What they ignore is the fact that the vast majority of Chinese females simply do not find Chinese men appealing to them.
Over 90 percent of young Chinese females interviewed reported that the primary reason they remain single is because they cannot find suitable Chinese men for marriage. Nearly half said outright that they do not find Chinese men sexually attractive or suitable as a romantic partners.
While it is very common in the West to hear Asian women openly express their sexual preference for white men, it is noteworthy that the same phenomenon is now happening in East Asia, particularly, China, a Communist Dictatorship.
A 30 year old Chinese woman living in Shenzhen said that she simply do not find any Chinese man attractive. “I rather be single than be in a relationship with someone I do not love.” She works as an independent consultant to an international company and received her masters degree in finance from an American university.
She yearns for the romantic and sexual freedom she once enjoyed in the west, and despises the air and the level of pollution in China, which to her symbolizes the oppression of Chinese women.
“It’s hapless to be a Chinese woman. My parents always ask me, why are you not getting married. 30 years old is considered old for a woman. They want to force me to marry this man who is short and ugly. I told them I won’t marry this guy unless he can give me 1 million yuan (approximately 100,000 dollars) as gift first. If I really loved a man, I would not even consider money. But I don’t trust love [with a Chinese man].”
Chinese women who have expressed interest in forging romantic and sexual relationships with foreign men has skyrocketed.
Between 2012 and 2019, 6 million Chinese women emigrated to foreign countries annually. 95 percent of those women were between the age 18 to 40. Top destinations for those young, fertile Chinese women include: USA, Canada, Australia, Great Britain, and European Union.
The vast majority of those Chinese women who emigrated would go on to form sexual and romantic liaisons exclusively with foreign men in foreign countries.
Chinese international reporting interviewed 7 Chinese women married to rich businessmen from Saudi Arabia. They had given birth to a total of 40 children. The paper lamented, “our beautiful Chinese women overseas had become breeding machines for foreign men.”
For those sex-starved Chinese women who are not able to leave China, they find sex with foreign men within China as their only means of escape.
A 29 year old Chinese woman who works for an investment bank in Shanghai says there was a period in her life when she would go out to bars and clubs every weekend, and “One time I had slept with 10 different foreign guys in 5 days.”
“I’d been single for a quite while then. China simply doesn’t have enough quality men for me. I know I’m being un-traditional in what I do. People would think I’m a slut. But I never did anything that was outside of my comfort zone, and neither do I ever plan to. A lot people in China still think sex is like a big deal and needs commitment. I don’t feel that way. I’m a modern woman. I believe if you enjoy what you do, you should just go out and do what you really enjoy.”
When asked if any of those guys were Chinese, she very proudly proclaimed. “None of them was Chinese. I don’t sleep with Chinese guys.”
A Sexual Paradise for Foreign Men in China:
Noah, a 24 year old young American man, had recently graduated with a B.A. in physics and is currently interning for an engineer position. An older man from Taiwan, the senior engineer who oversees Noah as his mentor and supervisor, brings him to Shanghai for a business trip. As soon as Noah arrives in Shanghai, he is thronged with young, beautiful Chinese women falling head over heels over him. Chinese women would stop Noah on the street, asking him to be friends and exchange numbers, or asking to practice their English skills. In the headquarter, Chinese female staffs would always be extra friendly with Noah and the vast majority would make the first move by exchanging their WeChat with Noah, and they often would completely ignore the older Asian man.
Though handsome and tall, Noah was still completely overwhelmed. He felt he was being treated like a rock star and was embarrassed, especially when the Chinese women openly coddled to him in front of his supervisor, the elderly Asian man.
Being a pious Christian and having a white American girlfriend back at home, Noah had to rebuff numerous offers from overly-eager Chinese women to have affairs with him.
What Noah has experienced was anything but unusual. It is widely considered common and “nothing out of the ordinary” for a foreign man in China to have multiple Chinese girlfriends at the same time, or that a white man would be able to sleep with hundreds of Chinese women over the span of just a few years.
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Christophe from France, age 50, came to China as a consultant. To celebrate his fist week in China, he and his expat friends decided to go to a local bar that catered to foreign men and local Chinese women. That night he had sex with three different Chinese girls. All his expat friends, a total four of them, took turns having sex with more than a dozen Chinese girls. Christophe remarked that while he had always known “how much Asian girls go crazy for white guys, I never realized it was this bad.” His friend, a German guy who had stayed in China for more than a year, remarked quickly that it was not bad. Rather, it was good.
Before arriving in China, Christophe had always thought that Chinese women were shy and conservative. Over the span of just three months, what he had witnessed had overturned everything he had believed. The German man with whom Christophe was acquainted had a sadistic tendency and had built a dungeon in his apartment. His girlfriend, a Chinese woman originally from Guangzhou, lives with him as his 24/7 submissive. She was kept naked at all times inside the apartment wearing nothing but a collar and a leash. Her once immaculate and pristine body had been covered with whip marks, bruises, branding marks, and words such as “SLUT” “WHORE” “SLAVE” permanently tatoo-ed on her body.
In addition to servicing her husband on her own, she often invites other Chinese women to her German boyfriend for submissive training. At night, multiple Chinese women, all naked and collared, would be seen dancing and pleasuring the German dom in various lewd and depraved ways.
Anal and vaginal trainings such as enema and large object insertions were routinely performed on those willing and submissive females. The express goal and objective, as clearly stated, was to “ruin those Chinese whores for China men”.
The German dom runs an underground BDSM club and nearly every dom in the club was a foreign men and all the submissives were local Chinese women. They often performed auctions whereby they exchanged the Chinese submissives for entertainment. All the Chinese submissives were completely voluntary and had to sign a waiver to give consent to become submissives in the club.
Chinese women are actually more promiscuous than American women.
David from America lived in China for two years and he says from his experience, Chinese women are actually way more sexually promiscuous than American women. Like most white men living in China, Dvid has had over a hundred Chinese girlfriends. In his phone he has a list of all the phone numbers of the Chinese girls he could call and text to. David says, “my Chinese girlfriends are all really sweet and caring. They are very submissive and would do anything to please me.”
One of the most surprising things David said about Chinese women is how much “they are wiling to be shared. They are always begging me to introduce them to my other white friends and ask to be gang banged. Sometimes their sexual appetite scares me.”
Sources:
https://chinadigitaltimes.net/chinese/355487.html
https://m.yicai.com/news/3997603.html
https://www.163.com/dy/article/HGFDTSNU0552ZNLQ.html
https://www.bilibili.com/read/cv20413946/?jump_opus=1
https://news.sina.cn/zl/2014-06-15/zl-icesifvw9274583.d.html
Living in an American city that is quite popular with Chinese nationals i believe i know what is happening. The mainland Chinese women who live in my city are pretty easy to seduce. And they are wonderfully receptive to good sex. But to a one they all say Chinese men do not take the time, or care about being good lovers. It’s just wham bam painful sex.